As a webcam mistress, it is our goal to make sure that each and every client is satisfied with our services. Because of this, we take a number of steps that help guarantee that the session is as enjoyable and fulfilling as possible. From explicitly outlining rules and expectations prior to the session, to following up after the session has ended — we ensure that our clients feel safe and well-cared for.

Prior to each session, we typically spend a lot of time getting to know our clients. This includes talking with them so that we can get a better understanding of their interests, desires, and kinks. This way, we can plan out what will be discussed and experienced during the session to make sure it’s tailored to their wants and needs. This also helps us to ensure that our clients know what to expect during the session, including any activities that may be slightly out of their comfort zone. Furthermore, it is important that we establish a safe word or phrase prior to the session so that our clients know when it is time to take a break.

Furthermore, during each session, we make sure to be attentive to the needs and boundaries of our clients. We respect their wishes and suggestions, and ensure that they are free to take breaks or stop the session altogether if they need to. Additionally, webcam mistresses maintain a nurturing attitude during sessions, always giving words of affirmation and reminding clients of how well they are doing.

Finally, after each session, we make sure to follow up with our clients to check in on them. This is an important step to making sure that our clients have had a good experience and are feeling satisfied with the session. By following up, we can make sure that our clients are happy and understand that we genuinely care about their wellbeing.

Overall, being a successful webcam mistress requires that we take steps to ensure that our sessions are satisfying and enjoyable for our clients. By taking the time to get to know our clients, understanding their boundaries, and following up with them after the session has ended — we are able to make sure that our clients are safe, comfortable, and ultimately, satisfied. Click here to find out more.

Can you describe a time when you had to intervene in a potentially dangerous situation as an ebony dominatrix?

I’ll never forget the day I had to intervene in a potentially dangerous situation as an ebony dominatrix. Months prior to this incident, I had heard of an older gentleman who was insisting that he needed discipline and had contacted me to be his Domme. This alone should have been a red flag for me, but I chose to take on the appointment.

As an Ebony Dominatrix, it is my responsibility to ensure the safety of all of my submissives and to be sure to explore their intentions prior to the encounter taking place. Unfortunately, with this gentleman, I failed in that department.

So, the day of the appointment came and I was feeling a bit uncomfortable when I arrived. The session began and I saw that there was a glint in the gentleman’s eye that seemed very off. As I was guiding him through the session, his movements became more aggressive and the environment changed from one of consent to one of violence.

When I realized what was happening, I was quick to intervene. I stopped the session and told the gentleman that I would not continue unless he calmed himself down. He complied, but I knew that there was still something concerning going on.

Thus, I decided to call for backup. I had a friend of mine accompany me on all of my appointments in the future – a role I still keep today. With my friend by my side, we were able to talk the gentleman down. He relented and apologized for his behavior before thanking me for intervening and leaving.

I learned so much from this experience and I’ve since come to understand the importance of properly screening submissives prior to meeting with them. I will also never forget the moment when I had to intervene as an Ebony Dominatrix. It was an uncomfortable and scary moment but ultimately, it ended peacefully – a reminder that sometimes a firm yet fair approach can lead to a more positive outcome.